Assalamualaikum and hi. Let's get into the topic. Well, I've seen a lot of people be arguing over who has it worse among fat shaming and skinny shaming stuffs and things. And as I can see, both sides tak nak mengalah and think that they got it worse. So, zaty would love to share my opinions here. 

  Well, as someone that have been through both shaming, both shaming hurts. Let's start with fat shaming. Fat shaming ni dia macam hits different sikit tau sakit dia. I mean, almost everything are against overweight people if you notice. Some fat people can't even eat at public dengan aman you know. Kena cakap jangan makan banyak la, itu la, ini la. Starve diri-sendiri just to lose weight because they don't know what else to do to lose weight as fast as possible. 

  It's not like you can't invaliding skinny's people punya feelings too. Underweight people are stuggling too. Kena samakan dengan tulang la, apa la. Then many people think that they are lucky just because they 'fit the beauty standard' more than overweight people do. I mean, everyone's punya body goals different tau. So you cannot go around them and say they're lucky just because they got your body goal's dream. 

  We're allowed to feel insecure. Just because they look 'good' in your eye, don't mean that they see the same things too. But nak insecure tu jangan sampai tak reti nak bersyukur. Just be grateful and try to achieve your body goals healthily. Both shaming are not okay and need to be stop. Instead of arguing which side got it worse, why not we just start to encourage each other? But sometimes, I do love watching people on tiktok yang start to love their body the way it is. I mean, it's inspired me a lot. I love the way they love themselves.  They are all so beautiful and glow differently. As an ED fighter, I wish I reach that. To love my body just the way I am. 

  It's hurts you know. Try to fix in... Sometimes, we just want to give up but sometimes, we want to fight too. I just hate someone that created 'beauty standard' things ni. It make no sense at all. I can't blame people yang insecure sometimes, sebab sakit yang diorang rasa masa kena shaming ni mostly berpunca daripada 'beauty standard' ni. I wish I could shoot em yang created that shits. ughhh. Well, moon and rose are both beautiful but they look nothing alike? So, in conclusions, let's punch people yang start this arguments. (The one who created this beauty standard shits). 

  Both shaming are painful but both body are beautiful. But if you want to reach your body goals, make sure to do it healthily. (I'm still doing coke and apple diet meals anyway lol) That's it. Bye. 

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